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    <h1>The Best Attitude For Successfully Dating The Modern Single Woman</h1>
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<p>From the <a href="https://heartiste.org/2013/11/04/the-best-attitude-for-successfully-dating-the-modern-single-woman/" target="_blank">original article</a> on November 4, 2013. Author: <a href="https://heartiste.org/" target="_blank">Chateau Heartiste</a>.</p>
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  <p>A reader emailed a run-of-the-mill question about the effectiveness of his text game, seeking advice from Chateau paragons of carnality. He’ll get his question answered, but there’s a bigger theme to this post.</p>
  <blockquote><p>I’m trying to extract the most fun out of this conversation with a girl. Comments? I’m building my skills. Met her on college campus and she gave me her number on the spot. Do post it if you wish, but keep my name off the post please.</p><p>Friday: Me: Hi. I see you around sometimes. Saturday at noon buy me lunch at _____; we’ll forget the world and relax in a limited time. 20-30 minutes; more if the world will wait.</p></blockquote>
  <p>The bloated prose of <a href="/overgaming.html" target="_blank">overgaming</a>. Why did you text “I see you around sometimes” after she had given you her number? It sounds disjointed. Good rule to follow: there’s never a scenario when “I see you around sometimes” doesn’t sound stalker-ish. The rest of your text is comical in its romantic abandon. I know you’re trying to be ironic and funny, but does she know that? Your intense come-on, however disingenuous, reveals the limitations of text conversations.</p>
  <blockquote><p>Her: Hey sorry if this sounds rude but I’ don’t really feel comfortable texting with you and definitely not comfortable meeting up with you. I don’t know you. And also I don’t know what your intentions are and I have a boyfriend. And we don’t feel comfortable. Sorry.</p></blockquote>
  <p>The lead may have been warm, but after your initial text it went ice cold.</p>
  <blockquote><p>Sunday. me: I laughed.</p></blockquote>
  <p>Did you laugh to yourself, or did you text her a status update on your chortling?</p>
  <blockquote><p>(another text) me: Silly your defense mechanisms activated. congrats your gfs are proud. I’m not interested in dating you or telling the world I’m talking with you. Assumed I wanted more? good girl you freaked out so hard. now I want shaved ice at ______(different place).</p></blockquote>
  <p>So hideously try-hard. Of course she assumed you wanted more. You’re reaching out to her, right? Implausible deniability is the branding of the butthurt beta who chewed off a bigger mouthful of chick sass than he could handle. If it’s obvious to everyone here reading this then it was obvious to her that you were stung by her rejection and backtracked clumsily into a transparently empty denial of intent.</p>
  <blockquote><p>I forgot to mention the girl is light-skinned Asian, about 5’5″ or 5’4″... a six or seven among the asian pop. (pretty big at my school), a four among the other white girls. I’m white. 5’6″.</p></blockquote>
  <p>Mostly irrelevant. Asians girls need more emotional investment than do white girls, but this minor racial difference wouldn’t have mattered in your case. You nuked yourself from orbit.</p>
  <p>You came for comments on your game and suggestions for improvement, and you’ll get that, but there’s a bigger problem you need to solve: your mental state.</p>
  <p>Better reply:</p>
  <p><em>Her: Hey sorry if this sounds rude but I’ don’t really feel comfortable texting with you and definitely not comfortable meeting up with you. Sorry sorry sorry blah blah sorry sorry no tingles sorry sorry sorry you’re creepy sorry sorry sorry sorry.</em></p>
  <p><em>You: so marriage and kids are out, then?</em></p>
  <p>If you want to leave the impression that you don’t take a girl’s dodges seriously, you should approach with an attitude of amused detachment. Like she’s nothing in the scheme of your life. Which she is. If you think a girl you just met is more than nothing, your behavior will reflect your inner beta psychology. And lame, needy and tactless is no way to go through life, son.</p>
  <p>No matter how many text suggestions you read at this blog, you will continue making the same mistakes, because your <a href="/the-aloof-alpha-attitude-explained.html" target="_blank">ATTITUDE</a> is WEAK. You feel aggrieved, you feel urgency, and you feel scarcity constraining your dating market options. As long as you feel those things, you’ll never quite grasp the art of flirtatious badinage. You might parrot a killer line here or there, but that line will be book-ended by pages of betaness.</p>
  <p>So instead of giving you a clam to eat, we’ll teach you how to fish clams for yourself. There’s really only one thing you need to know: have the right attitude, and the details of seduction, with just a little prompting, will fall into place. What’s that attitude? It’s best summed up in a thought experiment:</p>
  <p>A girl communicates with you. It’s on! You get nervous. Don’t want to blow it. Don’t be beta don’t be beta don’t be beta. You strain to retrieve some smart response that establishes your alpha boner fides.</p>
  <p>Instead of struggling for that perfect quip, access your deeper psyche and mold your emotional state. <strong>What would you say to her if you received her message while swaddled in the smooth flesh of three gorgeous nymphets going down on your knob?</strong></p>
  <p>There’s your answer.</p>
  <p>Now let’s revisit your hopeless interaction, but this time in the form of a super alpha male luxuriating in the caresses of three darling dainties.</p>
  <p><em>You: what’s up. drinks fri?</em></p>
  <p><em>Her: Hey sorry if this sounds rude but I’ don’t really feel comfortable texting with you and definitely not comfortable meeting up with you. I don’t know you. And also I don’t know what your intentions are and I have a boyfriend. And we don’t feel comfortable. Sorry.</em></p>
  <p><em>You: sweet.</em></p>
  <p>That’s the aloof attitude to have if you want success dating the modern single woman. She doesn’t love lovesick Romeo. She loves lovestuffed Romeo whose sexy attitude is a product of getting wrung dry by a cortege of concubines.</p>
  <p><strong>Maxim #14: Whenever you’re at a loss for what to say to a girl you like, imagine you’re a man in bed with three beautiful women. Then say what that man would say.</strong></p>
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