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<h1>Anti-Flake Tactic</h1>
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<p>From the <a href="https://heartiste.org/2011/12/15/anti-flake-tactic/" target="_blank">original article</a> on December 15, 2011. Author: <a href="https://heartiste.org/" target="_blank">Chateau Heartiste</a>.</p>
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<p>Le Chateau and its guests have offered many battle plans for combating flakiness in young women. (I stress “young”, because older women with fewer options don’t knee-jerk resort to flaking as often as women in their attractiveness primes do.) <a href="/non-sequitur-game.html" target="_blank">Non sequitur game</a> is a great method for dissuading women from flaking by switching their pursuit dynamic from chased to chaser. <a href="/trial-texting.html" target="_blank">Trial texting game</a> is effective at screening out girls who are more likely to flake on you. The archives abound with other techniques for dealing with, and dismantling the female impulse toward, flakiness.</p>
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<p>Now a reader has offered another anti-flake tactic, and it is a good one.</p>
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<blockquote><p>Her: 24 year old half Finn, half French, internationally raised (diplo-brat?), a 7-8? (we’ve never met)<br/> Me: 33</p><p>Met on okcupid (judge away, it’s great where I live), arranged a Friday evening first date, I get a text 30 mins before we’re to meet:</p><p>Her: Salut, i just got to my friends bday, u have to get up early, so maybe another time? Sunday perhaps?<br/> Me: (next day at noon) Can’t! I’m busy tomorrow.<br/> Me: (8 hours later) Sorry I was working. We can reschedule but you’d have to put forth the effort. Self-respecting men don’t play those early twenties games...<br/> (I assumed I’d look bitter and never hear from her again. I didn’t care.)<br/> Her: (on OKC the next morning) Hey, sorry about Friday, it was not very polite to cancel last minute, sorry.<br/> I have a friend staying with me next week until the 21st, so I’m not sure when I’ll be available to meet up.<br/> Have a nice Sunday,<br/> Me: (by text a few hours later) Hey, got your note. I’m not too busy to swing a drink today. Can you?<br/> Her: (5 mins later) Am at [museum] now but free after that<br/> Me: (45 mins later) Ok how’s this evening?<br/> Her: (15 mins later) Great, tell me where and when and I’ll be there</p><p>A solid turnaround, I’d say.</p></blockquote>
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<p>Tight, my good sir, tight. You could call this “next day service” game, where you don’t respond to a foot-dragging, flaky woman until the next day. (Forget about the planned date; a woman who has flaked on you 30 minutes before a date does not anyway deserve your company should you manage to change her mind about meeting you at the originally scheduled time.)</p>
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<p>A woman will not be able to resist her hamstery compulsion to perceive your status higher than she first judged if you make her sweat a little, or a lot, with a non-response when she is expecting a response, and with a non-spiteful or non-needy response when you do eventually respond to her.</p>
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<p>There are only two acceptable and effective attitudes to cop with flaky chicks:</p>
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<p>1. She is a lost cause, so any forward progress is merely icing on the cake that is your life, or</p>
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<p>2. you assume the sale and handle her as if she really wants you and is just playing the brat for make benefit of her glorious ego.</p>
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<p>The reader quoted above had an attitude that encompassed a bit of both. He was sufficiently unimpressed by her that he could afford to wait a day to respond to her flake, and when he did respond he did so with the confident, non-pussyfooting-around air of a man who assumed the flake just needed a little prodding.</p>
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<p>Most flakes won’t go anywhere, and, assuming you maintain a full love life otherwise, that’s a good thing. A flaky woman has tipped you off that she is a specimen of poor character, and will, truer than not, eventually resolve herself into a pain in the ass. You’re better off screening out flakes quickly than dealing with them in perpetuity.</p>
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<p>But anti-flake game will give you a shot to turn it around with a nontrivial number of flaky chicks. For such a low cost investment in your time and energy, it’s worth the attempt.</p>
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